It’s Your Life, It’s Your Choice

There’s a quiet strength in feeling different. Many people grow up in environments where conformity is praised, where society tries to write the script of your life before you even start living it. They tell you what to celebrate, how to dress, what to say, and even how to think. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to play by those rules. Feeling different? Keep it that way. That difference is not a weakness, it’s your power.

Language is one of the clearest examples. Maybe you naturally slip English words into your conversations. Maybe you feel like “freedom,” “chill,” or “vibe” carry something your local language just can’t express with the same energy. That’s not a mistake. That’s not disrespect. It’s simply you being authentic to the way you think and feel. If your audience doesn’t understand, that’s on them, not you. Language evolves, cultures mix, and sometimes a borrowed word says what an entire sentence cannot.

Celebrating international holidays is another way of claiming your freedom. Why not put up a Christmas tree even if it’s not part of your official tradition? Why not throw a Halloween party, eat pancakes on Shrove Tuesday, or mark Thanksgiving with friends just for the joy of gratitude? These holidays may come from different places, but joy has no borders. It’s your right to celebrate life however you want. You’re not betraying your roots, you’re expanding them, adding more colors to your palette.

And yes, people will talk. Society always talks. Some will call you “too modern,” others will whisper that you’re forgetting your culture. But culture isn’t a prison. It’s a foundation. You can stand on it, respect it, and still look beyond the walls it tries to build around you. You are not obligated to fit in. You are obligated to live your life in a way that feels real to you.

So keep being different. Keep mixing languages, keep celebrating what excites you, keep standing apart if that’s where your truth lies. Life is too short to let others dictate the soundtrack of your existence. In the end, it’s your life, it’s your choice.