Araz Gray

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How Durnam was created?

Durnam Durnam.com (Formerly Nasreddin.org) Azerbaijani Turkish is a language that has experienced many ups and downs. This language, like other Turkic languages, was initially written with the old Arabic alphabet. Later, in the Republic of Azerbaijan, it was first written with Latin,... Read All


How to discuss?

Lately, following the recurring tensions I’ve faced while discussing various issues with different people, I decided to write down some thoughts on the etiquette of debating, for myself, and of course for others (especially since it often comes up during gatherings like Nowruz). 1. A debate shoul... Read All

Happy Noruz 1403!

Another solar year has passed, and this time, after six years of life connected to migration to Turkey (and reverse migration while still working with Turkey), the departure, or rather, the destruction, of my safe haven and my resignation marked the beginning of the challenge of rebuilding my profes... Read All

Three Months After Resignation

Writing, for me, carries a key message beyond all its other benefits: that I am making progress, mentally and intellectually. If at any point in my life I cannot write, it means my thoughts haven’t progressed. That phase was like my last year at my previous company. Mental chaos, fatigue, and lack o... Read All

Managing Negative Triggers

Sometimes people can trigger our negative emotions, leading to feelings of upset or anger. Assuming we cannot stop their behavior: Set Healthy Boundaries: Identify and communicate your boundaries to prevent situations that trigger negative emotions. If someone consistently crosses these bounda... Read All

When Employees “Expire”

A while ago, at a gathering with IT friends in Tabriz, one attendee talked about employees “expiring” and said that after a year, or sometimes less or more, some employees start making excuses and stretch out tasks that used to take a day into weeks. He concluded that these employees had “expired” a... Read All

3 Thing to Improve For Having Better Feelings

Self-ConfidenceBelief in your own abilities and capacity to handle tasks and face challenges. Ways to boost it:1. Practice and repeat small successes2. Positive and supportive interactions with others (or, if you can't find them, seek people who interact with you and your ideas positively and sup... Read All


How to avoid burnout

Take a break. If possible, take a few days off to rest and recharge. Even a long weekend can help you regain calm and energy. Review your workload and commitments. Try to eliminate unnecessary tasks and obligations. Learn to say no to requests that aren’t truly essential. Set aside time for r... Read All

Endless Meadow Under Rainy Clouds

Last night, I dreamed I had died. I found myself in an endless meadow, where as far as the eye could see, there were only green grass and shrubs. The sky was completely cloudy, filled with gray and bluish clouds that seemed like rain was about to start any moment. I felt a strange and heavy sadness.... Read All