Araz Gray

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Full-Time Remote Job Opportunities in Turkey

At the Istanbul branch of the company I work for, three positions are open for Senior Front-End, Back-End, and Mobile (React Native) developers. If you prefer to work at a good company without commuting, traffic, or even moving abroad, this is an opportunity not to miss. We’re flexible. If you’re so... Read All

Finding Purpose and Action

One of my friends emailed me: My undergraduate exams finished this week. Since then, I've been under a lot of mental pressure, feeling like a useless person. I can't even handle a single day like this. Previously, even if I had nothing to do, I would at least be at the university a few days a w... Read All

Dream of Arasbaran

Another week of multi-day family trips. This time, everyone agreed on Arasbaran. As soon as we arrive, the tents go up. From a distance, your red coat catches my eye. I had heard your name before. I knew you existed. But in our first meeting, I didn’t expect to feel such closeness and familiarity. I... Read All

How to Confront Yourself?

You Won’t Start on Monday If You Don’t Read This Exploitation and Mental Manipulation: Recognizing and Avoiding Humanity’s Most Dangerous Traits How to Survive a Breakup Minimal (13): How to Date Someone Emotionally Unavailable How to Live a Happy and Productive Life: A Practical Guide... Read All

Do not as the Romans Do

Want to avoid embarrassment? Blend in with the crowd? This proverb carries several assumptions: First assumption: By default, you are embarrassing. Second assumption: Being embarrassed is undesirable. Third assumption: Blending in protects you from embarrassment. But this proverb has some m... Read All

Relationship Pros

Leaving a Tarzan-like life and achieving proper grooming and attire Boosting self-confidence (at least someone, even a completely clueless person, values you) Access to emotional support during tough days Sharing in moments of joy Opportunities to join groups with couples as members Kee... Read All

A Practical Guide to Preparing for Migration

Before migrating, work and live in Iran. Migration itself is hard. Don’t let the challenges of living alone for the first time add to the difficulties of migration. Learn and master the language(s) of your destination country, especially their street-level slang. Learn as much as possible, ev... Read All

20 Laravel Eloquent Tricks for Faster Coding

Use eager loading to reduce unnecessary queries with with(). Leverage query scopes to keep your models clean and reusable. Use firstOrCreate() to simplify conditional record creation. Use updateOrCreate() to efficiently update or insert records. Take advantage of pluck() to get single col... Read All

June 12, 2019, Istanbul

A few days ago I returned to Istanbul, and after some rest and recuperation, I finally started working at my new job. During the time I was job hunting, my main goal was to choose the best and most stable option possible, while avoiding repetition of past misfortunes. Everything at the new company s... Read All

May 29, 2019, Mehrabad Airport, Tehran

I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve had issues with my workplace, but here’s the short and tense version: I lost my job again, and once more I applied for other positions. This time, however, I was very selective, I rejected almost all of the 10-15 interviews I attended, determined that this woul... Read All

What the heck is wrong with you people?

A) My roommate, after much whining about having brought all their savings from Iran, refuses to contribute to living expenses. They decide to leave and use the remaining money (which they claimed was their only life savings) to buy clothes and return to Iran. I decide to be more careful from now on.... Read All